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Jan 6 2022

Love Yourself First

In our life, we always say: “I love you.” Or “I love him, but we never say: “I love myself.” Actually, it is not true, we love ourself first.”
It is because we are selfish that we do not say we love ourselves. Selfish is right if we do not hurt other people.
In the present society, many people want to take advantage of other people, very few people will deal things fairly with us.
We have to protect ourself, we must be selfish. We need a selfish of wisdom. That is to protect ourselves without hurting others.
A short story tells us something about “Love yourself.” Many years ago, there was a girl in the one big family. One day, grandfather was sick, and going to die.
After hearing her grandfather would die, she cried sadly. Her mother thought she cried for her grandfather. But, actually she said that she cried for herself because one day she would also die. The girl was frank.
Therefore, we must love ourselves, then we can love others to show our love.