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July 27 2021

Forgetting Others Help

When we help others, it is better to forget, or you had better no help. It is because human, generally, do not remember grace.
Most human characters, maybe we are one of them, are easy to forget what others have helped us. It is the general trend in the human world.
People mostly will forget other’ grace, but they only forget, not to give you any harm in return to which you can feel safe.
For example, decades ago a woman came to Hong Kong from Shanghai. She worked hard for years and saved a certain amount of money. One day, she received a phone call from her brother in Shanghai, saying that he needed money to buy a house and ask her to help. She remitted all her savings to her, almost with all her savings.
Year later she went to Shanghai to see her brother and naturally stayed at her brother’s house which she bought for him. But to her surprise wife of his brother did not welcome her. She was forced to stay in hotel.
From here we can see that helping others may get hard feeling in the end.