Jan 5 2021

Friends

In our whole life, we must have friends. The definition of friends is based upon that we can call each other’s name and know each other’s character even not deeply. In the beginning, friends may know each other, but no friendship. Only by the time going on, and communication close, they can build good friendship, on the basis, they need each other on the affairs of their mutual life.
There are two kinds of friends. One is in business and anther is schoolmates. The friendship between schoolmates is pure because they demand nothing from each other. What makes them together due to the same interest in life. But, in business, pure friendship is not existent. They become close friends because they need each other’ help in business for their mutual.
Another kind of friendship is that they have the same interest in common, such as they all like photoing, drawing, music, dancing etc. Interest in common brings them together. Also, colleague in a company can make close friendship, because they work together all the year round during the day.
But, once you are retired, you shall have no friends. It is because that friendship can only exists together if they have mutual benefit. One side benefit cannot build friendship.