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June 28 2020

Try Best To Say “No”

Everybody has twenty-four hours. But in many ways, we do not use these hours for ourselves, but, unwillingly is used by other people, who may, for reason of one another, ask us to do something for them. Thus, they take our time away.
We are human beings living together in group. To help each other is necessary in human relationship. But there should be a limit. If we help others too much from our own time, we shall hurt ourselves very much.
Unless you are a person of nothing to do, you may be able to use your time to help others. But, should you are a busy person in your daily work and private life, you must say “no”. When people ask you to do something for them, you must decline.
You wish to be a good person, but first of all, you must be good to yourself and to your family. If you are too generous to allow others use your time, you are indeed a fool. Therefore, you should be very carefully to refuse other’s request on using your time and say “no” is the only weapon to protect your life.