Apr 13 2020

Keep Distance

Between human to human, except members of own family, it is better to keep a certain distance from each other because too close together will create argument between person to person. Especially when we are together with friend, a prudent precaution must be noticed, or a good friend may become enemy due to too close relationship.
In our life, we cannot have no friends who is important in time of need, but we have to keep a reasonable distance, in order keep a good friendship forever.
The best way is to learn from philosophy of fireplace. In the zone of cold climate every home has fireplace at home, and in wintertime, fireplace is essential in daily life. To get benefit of warmness of fireplace, we have to adjust the distance between our body and fireplace. Too close of it will hurt our clothes and too distant shall have no warmness. Our human is the same, a reasonable distance between person to person is necessary.
Even so close as husband and wife, a certain distance must be kept. Under the sphere of trust, husband and wife must have freedom to live their private life so that their relationship will be smooth forever.