Mar 2 2020

Respect Other People’s Freedom

We all like to be a person of freedom, but first of all, we must respect other’s freedom. Then we can have our own freedom.
We know that in Chinsese restaurant, we can speak louder. It is because that everybody speaks loud voice and you have to follow this tradition, even it is not good.
But, in Western restaurant, everyone speaks in low voice and you have to respect their freedom. You will, then, speak also in a low voice to be together with their culture.
Many years ago, there was a Chinese girl who played piano best than other pianists, but no orchestra will employ her because she played piano not together with other colleague, she just played in her own way.
Therefore, if we want freedom, we must first respect others freedom. You cannot laugh when others are in a sad mood. You cannot weep when others are in happy atmosphere. You have to follow the general feeling at any circumstance, to be a member of their group in one behavior.