Dec 15 2019

Improper Word Changes Relationship Instantly

An old friend gets together, talking closely with so intimated atmosphere, but one side says something he should not say, hurting the other side to a great extent. Then decades of old friendship is immediately gone and become strangers from that time on.
Such situation happens in society frequently. Therefore, we should think carefully before we speak. Never say carelessly as we like. Especially to old friends, we should avoid to speak sensitive words which may offend him.
Between young person to young person, to speak words carelessly are of no problem. They like to make fun with each other and joking of any words are a kind of fun.
But if you speak between middle aged persons, words should be very prudently spoken, or you may get trouble afterwards.
As we Chinese say: “Disaster is from mouth, sick also from mouth in eating carelessly.” We have two ears and one mouth which clearly tells us that we should listen more and speak less. Besides a person who speak prudently can win other’s confidence, and carless speaker not.