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Nov 22 2019

The Foundation Of Close Relationship

Between parents and children, due to blood relationship, it is natural that their relationship is surely close and intimate. As to husband and wife, relationship is close by marriage and so forth as between colleagues.
But as to friend, relationship shall be only established by communication through a period of time. But the relationship is still in a state to know each other’s life and character. Relationship cannot understand each person’s heart.
Even parent to children, parent can know child’s behavior, but they cannot know child’s heart. We, Chinese, have a saying: “One mother can have nine children, but with ten different hearts of thinking. Even between husband and wife, they know each other well, but as to the deep of each heart, it is difficult to know.
Actually, we ourselves even do not know our own heart. Our thinking will be changed when age increases and circumstance alters, we might have a good heart in the beginning, but when we have been cheated often, our heart will be cold and trust others no more. We will be selfish, only thinking how to protect ourselves.