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Jun 26 2019

Human Easy To Forget

As a human, most people are easy to forget. If you do some favour to somebody, do not expect that one day he will return same favour to you. If your help is based on a returning favor, do not help. Or you will have unhappiness more than happiness.
To help others, even it is a big help, people still will forget. Those who receive your big favour, may appreciate your kindness in the initial stage. But, when time goes by, he will forget what you have helped. Should one day you ask his help, he may reject.
The best way is that you use money to buy others’ service. In such case, no one will owe nothing to each other, a fair transaction in principle.
That is why in recent decades people adapt an AA system in many ways, especially going to restaurant to eat together. Everyone pays for himself in equal share.
The world is so big, you cannot be a savior to save the world. Just be yourself to live alone, to take a good care for yourself, to live a peaceful life in all your life.