May 25 2019

Avoid To Argue

We Chinese have a saying that when we happen to argue with people, we should take soft attitude and reduce the hot sphere of arguing occasion. If we do not do so, a small argument may result a serious consequence.
Even so, the soft attitude is not the best way, the best way is to avoid arguing in the first moment. If you do not argue in the beginning, everything will be peaceful.
But, how to avoid argument, we must keep ourselves always in a humble manner and behave politely. As long as we live our life in a polite way, chance of arguing with people is very much less.
Actually, what we argue with people is almost on minor thing. It is indeed not worthy to spend our time and emotion to argue with people.
We should have a philosophy of broad mind, and neglect things of minor importance. As our life is short, we should spend our whole effort of life to do things which is the most benefit to our living.