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Mar 3 2019

Proud Character, Not Happy

If we think ourselves to be a person superior than other people, we will be proud in our manner. If it is so, we shall not be a happy person. Most people will despise the person if he is proud. Our Chinese has a saying: “We get harm from proudness, profitable by humble.”
But nowadays, many young persons who have high education and work in a high position, are easily inclined to show their proudness in their daily life in association with people.
Those people who are successful in their knowledge, but not good in relationship with people, who do not like to be friends with those of proud characters.
Therefore, even we are so well-educated, we must keep our humble manner in every occasion and respect people whose knowledge is lower than ours.
In the past history, many people who had been successful in the beginning, but finally they failed. Those cases have been many in the past record.
Since politeness will cost us nothing, why not we practice our manner in humble way by which we can obtain more friends and live a happy life than loneliness.
If we have a proud character, people may hurt us behind, but with politeness, we are sure that nobody will harm us. The human character of the world is to live amicably between each other and it is important that we must be humble toward everybody.