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Feb 22 2019

I Am Such A Person

We always hear someone saying: “I am such a person, willing to help other persons, but mostly I get nothing back.” Or “I am such a person who works very hard, but still poor.” Those persons are most not successful. They only wish to win sympathy from other people.
Such persons are not bad people, the weak points of theirs are due to that they never criticize themselves to improve. They live inside a circle, waiting people to have sympathy on them.
Another group of people are those who frequently prefer to say “I” in conversation with other people. People will despise him if he says too much “I” in conversing with each other.
We, basically, cannot be a perfect person and also we cannot make everybody happy, but we should try our best not to let others to despise upon us. The way is to let others speak more and we speak less.
As for ourselves, we should build ourselves as a strong character, holding things in right principle not to be swayed by wind from different direction.
Our life is quite long, according to the statistics, average living age of Hong Kong people is around eighty. Therefore, we shall have chance to live for eighty winters, on which our life may feel hard by the extreme coldness. But, if we insist to go on with determination, winter will surrender before us.