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Jan 21 2019

Have A Generous Heart

We, Chinese, always say: “To live a good life is not easy.’ It is because human heart is so complicated that we do not know how to deal with it. But, if we apply a philosophy which will help us to make a good relationship with anyone.
That is what the old saying said: “Do not do anything to others if we do not want to do with ourselves.”
To say simply, if we do not want others to be impolite to us, we must be polite to others. Do not cheat if you do not want to be cheated.
Our Chinese philosopher two thousand years ago, Laozi said: “Soft wins strong.” We can usually win a strong enemy if we have a soft attitude outside, but with a strong character inside our heart.
But, in this world, somebody always put on others something which he himself does not want to do. In such a case, we must use our wisdom to deal with this unfair problem.
As long as you do not take advantages from any people, you do not have to be afraid to speak out bravely if the reason is on your side.
We may live up to eighty years or even longer. It is a long period of life which should be handled carefully and prudently to deal with people who are with us in the society.