Nov 27 2018

Give: Forget It

Sometimes, when we help others, we wish that they will help us back in the same way. It is not right to have such idea in our mind. As in the human world, people mostly are easy to forget the favor which you gave him. Therefore, better to apply “Give: forget it.” which is more happier to live your life.
You help them, but they hurt you back. Such people are rare. Most people are only inclined to forget the favour which you gave them. This is the general tendency in society. However, to help others is a thing of good deed which God will grace you back.
But, sometimes, when you help others, you will get angered. It is because that you are rich and you help poor people with certain amount of money, but the poor people do not appreciate the amount you give. They think you give too small amount compared with your wealth. Especially such things frequently happen between rich and poor relatives.
On the other hand, we should avoid to have grace from other people. We must be strong and independent and seek no favour form any one. To do this, we need simple life. Only a simple life can make us to be a person of seeking no help from others.