Nov 5 2018

Avoid Cool Manner

The definition of cool manner is difficult to explain. It is because the opposite of “cool manner” is “warmness’. But we cannot be warm to other for no reason.
Actually, in our life, we do not have to be too serious to pay attention on “cool manner” or “warmness’. We just keep one word as our guidance which is useful everywhere at any time. That is the word “polite’.
As long as we always keep ourselves in polite manner, we shall live under no pressure. On the other hand, we will be welcomed by any person we meet.
“Politeness” is not only to other, but to ourselves as well. We shall keep a peaceful mind, gentle manner, even we are alone at home. If we can build such a habit by our own, we shall be polite to everyone naturally.
“Politeness” is a worldly pass. With it we shall go anywhere smoothly, welcomed by any people we see.
To teach children, it is not necessary to say so many complicated words, just saying one word “polite” which is more effective to a child.
Ancient Chinese scholar Confucius taught us that politeness should be the first thing to learn in our life, by which guidance, we can live safely and beautifully in our life.