Sometimes somebody comes to tell us that so and so person is talking badly about us. On hearing such news, we will surely be unhappy and intend to question him.
But, we should calm down ourself before taking any action of revenge. Firstly, we do not hear the bad words by our own ears. Secondly, words, from somebody are not to be trusted in a general sense. Therefore, it is better to ignore the words as nothing has happened.
In our human life, we cannot stop other people to talk about us whether it is good or bad. What we should do is to be a good person ourself in every way, living our life in our own way, neglecting other people’s comment.
But, in the reality of our life, we should speak less. As by less speaking, trouble will also be less. As by life experience, trouble usually comes by talking too much.
According to statics, women live longer life that men. It is mostly that women like to talk more than men. May be that to talk more is good for health to let the pressure in the heart be released. So far, no scientists can confirm this point.