Sometimes, we heard someone said: “I am very lonely.” This means that he needs someone to accompany him. This is a wrong idea. Our loneliness is actually from our heart. If our heart is not lonely, we are always in a busy feeling, whether there is somebody besides us or not.
But, loneliness is a proper feeling which is necessary in our life. Because we are lonely, we have time to study, to read, to work, to do whatever things we like.
If we are always with someone together, we will be bored in our daily life. Besides, we shall have no privacy if someone is by our side all the time.
To get rid of loneliness, we need to be with someone or with a group of persons to use our time in a noisy way, in chatting, in playing, or in any style of actions just to keep away not to be lonely.
If you say: “You are lonely.” You are a person of ignorance. A person of wisdom will never say that. A wise person only thinks that his time is not enough, unable to finish his job in anything which comes to his hand.
Therefore, you must hold your mastery. That is in which time you should be lonely and in which time you should be with people. The decision is in your hands, but never say: “You are lonely.”