If we speak offending words carelessly to our friends, it may result that our friendship may be gone. Therefore, no matter how intimate friendship with each other, words in conversation must be prudent, especially that we shall never point out our friends’ weakness or faults even it is minor.
It is human nature that we do not listen other people’s opinion even they speak with sincerity and good heart. We always think what we do is right. That is why so many people commit mistakes. We always close door against opinion from anybody.
Only parent can point out the fault of their children and whether the children will listen or not, that is a different matter. But, the parent will never stop saying to advice children.
Even between husband and wife, there are many things you cannot speak frankly. The flank conversation will hurt the relationship between each other. Husband and wife can only live together happily with love. Once love is gone, quarrel will appear. Therefore to keep a good relationship between husband and wife is an important lesson to learn for both of them.
To talk less is always better than to talk more. We do not like people who talks too much, especially the person who gossips about others affairs. But, to keep silence as a motto is also not good. We, in society, must have connections with each other. We cannot live isolated, away from people. Therefore, we should learn the art of how to speak properly, saying what we should say, and saying not what we should not say.