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Jul 20 2017

Hate

In our life, we will meet many unhappy things, such as that some people will hurt us unreasonably. Therefore, we will hate them. But, in most cases, we can only keep hate in our heart due to circumstances which do not allow us to express our hate openly and freely. If this is the case, we had better forget the hate and instead, use the time of hate to enjoy our life of happiness.
Our time in life is precious and it is not wise to hate other people who may not know of our hate. It is absolutely not right to tell the person that you hate him who may, in return, hurt you more in one way or another.
In the reality of life, if you are a man of broad mind, you should have tolerance. To forgive is better than to hate to make yourself always in peace. Hate will only create more hate from the people whom you hate.
Be aware to speak more prudently. You shall have no trouble and disaster if you have a character to speak carefully.
The Bible tells us that we have two ears, but only one mouth which is a proof to speak less and listen more. That is why we, Chinese, have a proverb: “Silence is gold.” which we must remember always in our heart..